Why did you lose 80 pounds?

Because I want to be able to do things like this:

Two Years of Surfing

I made this movie for my son's teacher because she's never seen Javy surf. Javy has now been surfing for two years.  The music is "Free" by Donavon Frankenreiter with Jack Johnson.  

A Couple of Movie Recommendations!

     First, I just want to recommend the documentary, "The Horse Boy" to everyone, whether you know a person with disabilities or not.  Even if you don't know someone, there's a great chance that you will meet a person with disabilities and this movie gives a neat perspective from the vantage point of the parents.  Its actually about a boy with autism, but I can totally relate with his parents.

     One of the points that it brings up is the fact that autism is becoming more and more common and we need to find a place for everyone in our society.  I love that.  No more hiding them away in an institution.  We should embrace their differences and see their value.  And I have proof that everyone, no matter their abilities, has a place in society.

  

     The picture above is a card that Javy's class made for him for his birthday.  The teacher gave them the heart cut outs and told them to write whatever they wanted for Javy.  These kids are physically able,  but have other issues that cause them to be in a Special Education classroom.  Javy's teacher explained to me that the student who wrote that Javy taught him how to smile, literally never smiled but he lights up with Javy.  Another student wouldn't write their letters, but when asked to write for Javy, began writing.  I like to think that maybe because they met Javy, these kids will overcome their adversities and be able to follow their dreams.  Javy can't walk or talk, like most people, but he does have a way of inspiring people.  

     The other movie I want to recommend is "Step into Liquid".  This movie explained something to me that I had no way of understanding, why surfers are the way they are.  It made me realize why Javy lights up when he is surfing.  It doesn't matter that he can't do it by himself or stand up by himself, just the whole experience has him stoked.  

     Originally, I said that I wanted to lose weight and be healthy so that I could surf with Javy.  I realize now that is not really my dream and Javy doesn't really need me there.  He's got the bug, with or without me.  That is pretty cool.  

     Javy still has taught me how to surf, though, metaphorically speaking. I've overcome a lot of my fears and learned to ride whatever comes my way. 

 "I'm not afraid to die.  I'm not afraid to live."- U2